” In Despair , There Is No Fan Fare ! “
By: Carrie Adams
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How could there be peace when peace is being stomped on , lives are being lived in maximum hopelessness .
I remember my childhood so vividly . It was a wonderful time to be raised up in this country . There was always the presence of respect , character building , supportive pools of people every turn along the way . I feel struck by the helplessness that our kids today are going through.
How did we not watch close enough the peril that they would know ? To hear that they are missing , that they are runaways ? The policing towards them in public schools and no one even agreed to such actions , but your children have a despair that is not a fan fare .
What are we to do ? So much , not sit back any longer . They only want what we wanted having been their same age at some point ourselves , how can you and I help them ?
Can you be a spokes person that in your community everyone will see you every where and not forget !
There are oh too many aweful things that our children in America have been faced with , and it’s to our approval ?
I have been a humble person most of my life . Having extended my time , my skills , my passion , to share the love for kids and in my career I was noticed for having done a fine job at it .
I love them all . They need our stance – our support , our encouragement , our full responsibilities for them and Right NOW we will not agree to hearing or seeing our young children , whose vibrant lives have been helplessly dangling with despair . Our kids have gone through too much . The permanent physical and emotional scars . Heavy mental turmoil . Anguish , disgust , and disbelief to what life and it’s importance was to be .
The spiritual despair that our kids know too well is no fan fare and we are the ones to put it to an end . To shove the bad toxic things or people from their lives and rescue their abandoned hearts and minds .
Our kids rely on balance – support , consistency , relationships with both parents , with their own kin . You know the days are just numbers or dates etc .. Yet their childhoods are crushing , detrimental , sorrow filled , helpless . What could they have done so bad to get their world zapped from their finger tips ?
They have done nothing wrong . It should be a pleasure and blessing to share the love for kids with others . If we rear them right and a discipline and respect endures within them they will shine . Brightly be lit with love , with honor , with integrity and to show the world that is now within their reach that they love where they come from !! There was always a happiness in my circles .
Hard times that I had made me stronger . Permitting me to over come . I always saw myself grow and know that everything was going to be alright . Living today in America is absolutely frightening . Ask the kids what are their thoughts .
Sit down with them and mold the assurances that everything is going to be alright . Talk often and secure their relationships with you their family members and love them unconditionally . It’s time to give the time back to them . Give them room to tell you what you need to know .
” In despair , there is no fan fare ! ”
Show the leaders in your communities , in public offices , in various departments within the schools – your child is everything to you . It will turn around quickly if you don’t waste any more time . Don’t let any doctor treat your child with psych meds , you are harming their natural developments and no clinician honestly is living in your extra guest bedroom so why let him her into your child’s lives ? You can rear them and it’s detrimental that you do .
Take back what the enemy tried to destroy . Show your children maturity , Give them the right to take back their voices , to appreciate them to have unconditional love . You should protect them from the courts , from abusive people , from toxic places .
If we allow any more precious time to run out on our precious blessings / our kids then we are to blame . They will always need valuable models to look at , to naturally accept themselves , to be the best at what their own interests and passions are .
What can you do ? You can old things a better way . You can shower your kids with respect and realistic goals . Drive their life towards success . Drive them to self reliance and Independence to make grateful decisions . They do not deserve this ugly life that is silently drowning them .
Go back to the family traditions . Give them loyalty to set free among their peers . It’s about respect . Nurture what you see in them and pluck out or hold out what may not be good for them . It’s not about you . A parent that is interfering with a relationship that kids have with both parents – you will never honorably be respected for tormenting their hearts and minds . That has been a bad action from you and you are responsible for their dispair and it is not a fan fare .
Stop the abuse to our kids . Call on those who are the abusers . File more law suits to the highest courts of this land . Our kids do not need this madness , the useless danger and rampant fear in their neighborhoods . If you want to explain change , show them . Guidance is a lifetime commitment until they decide they need no more .
Get off this love for money and with or without you honey I’m doing what i want to . What a serious attitude of ignorance this is . End the domestic violence , be a community watcher , show the children you are available for them .
” In despair , there is no fan fare ! ”
Are you shocked ? The children will say what is on their mind and stop silencing them . You have the problem and please do not blame them or accuse them .
Our land has taken itself off the map of integrity , volunteer roles , giving to others , community service , athletics for fitness not for feuds with the grown up’s , removing consciously our love to them . You must know that the pile of despair in these kids lives is deafening .
I hurt , you do too and what happens when it’s at the hands of others . Let’s grab the joy and honor of parenthood and give the best to our kids and not jip them another day . Be where you should be if you have kids . Let others see that you place them first and do not show or speak animosity about them .
They are angels and dispair was not a part of the delivery when God gave them to you to borrow , yes borrow – they are his first then you last .
I love kids and I love my own and this nasty behavior permitted to obstruct the purest healthy relationships between kids and their own parents is a no win outcome . Who is the winner , what prizes do you expect ?
Tell our children that never never will they have to see any more poison permanent life time scars if you love them .
To get respect is to give respect .
So much love to my kids J & B for being you . I am here waiting and have so the entire time . I would never walk away . I would never give you away . I would never keep other people away.
In despair , there is no fan fair !
Better celebrate what God is doing and what he is yet to do . Our kids have their power which must be released into our lives .
You will have deadly regrets if you keep harming them.
Carrie Adams
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